The latest sermon of Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo has outraged Simi as the musician has reacted angrily to the said message on social media.
In a video which has gone viral, Pastor Okonkwo is captured preaching to women about why men behave the way they do.
He told the congregation that “God put so much sexual passion in men expecting that women will obey him by doing access denied so that if he wants so much sex, he should marry. So he will give you want you want, you will give him what he wants. That was how God planned it but many women have been sabotaging themselves. You have been giving it out to people that didn’t put the ring on it. This is why we have many single people because a lot of guys are sexually satisfied.
“Men are not as emotionally developed as women. Women know what they want from childhood. The average girl has dreams of how her wedding will be. Men, as a teenager, he is just playing ball. He has no dreams of settling down. He wants sex. Men want sex; not relationship.”
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Excepts from the Manual…. to get full message go to www.lovedatingandmarriage. Org or reach @ldmwithpk PLS NOTE they were only WOMEN in this hall (about 2000 of them) so the message was for women, we also spoke to men, the male version was held a week after and had thousands of men too (titled MANDATE ) message also available on the website so pls don't come and say what of the men…. And if you still want to know why we kind of address wome more it's simple- women are the ones affected more by bad relationships, women are the ones that feel used when sex is involved, women get pregnant, women abort or stay with the baby, women deal with the shame so that's why we try to protect women. Oh and by the way I agree that more should be done to mentor men and we are already working on different things to achieve that. #pstkspeaks
But Simi holds a contrary view. In fact, she suggests the pastor goofed.
“This is exactly what infuriates me,” she noted. “These are the kind of people this sermon is encouraging. No one is perfect. Men of God are men and it is possible that your approach is flawed. It is dangerous to listen to only people that agree with you.
“Might as well say God made women more emotionally vulnerable because God expected men to not take advantage of them. God does not use as us puppets and the Bible does not say that. Marriage is not a reward for good behaviour.”
Meanwhile a section of the public has jabbed the pastor for the sermon. Check out some reactions on social media below
“So much sex he should marry” applies for both men and women.. pastor pastor.. “give him what he wants and he will give you what I want..” even some women that give their best to their husbands still get cheated on.. this pastor sha… if he is a pastor..
— MissAdeTayo🇳🇬🇨🇦 (@msadeteee) March 17, 2019
Is anyone going to tell Pastor that Mia Khalifa is getting married?
Dont know why these men still preach these ill thot debunked messages, Sexual satisfaction isnt any of main reasons men & women arent getting married.
Finance, no job security& unstable economy etc
— Wale Gates 🇳🇬🇬🇧 (@walegates) March 18, 2019
There's everything wrong with this message. How can he say that was how God planned it?. So God planned for only women to want "marriages"? Then men to want sex?.. I dont understand the 21st century preachers anymore. We have lost it😭
— P! 🌹 (@ai_waa_) March 18, 2019
This is BS at best! Totally unscriptural and simply the product of his own imagination
— 19TH FEBRUARY IS MY BIRTHDAY! (@EarthGod_Hugo) March 17, 2019